The best K-Drama of all Time
There is a lot that makes this drama superior to any other. I saw It's okay that's love when it first came out, and I have been rewatching it since, every time loving something new about it and it helping me learn something new about the world or myself. To start, this drama deals with mental illnesses in a "beautiful" manner. Mental illness is neither glorified nor portrayed as an inescapable destiny. Instead, it is confronted as a challenge that one has to slowly but gradually overcome, and is most possible through true love and understanding. It's also unique to see how the main couple had to learn how to understand each other's "illness" and grow to prioritize the feelings of the other. AND THEIR CHEMISTRY!!!! IT'S PERFECT!!! I HAVE NEVER SEEN SUCH A CHARISMATIC COUPLE!The plot starts off really interesting as is, but the story gets more and more interesting as we follow Jae Yeol background and what happened with his brother. The music played matches the story so well, with so many lovely and poignant songs. The scenery is marvelous and the spontaneity of the scenes is wonderful. Overall, the story touches one's heart and heals it, and makes one believe in love again.
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At first I found it really hard to get into this drama and found it really slow. For the first 11 episodes, I kept predicting the plot and found Jang Jae Yeol and Ji Hae Soo's love/chemistry unrelatable. To be honest their relationship annoyed me, JJY seemed really cold and aloof towards JHS, while JHS just seemed angry all the time but also a doormat. However, after episode 11 I was completely hooked and marathoned the last 5 episodes. This is strange for a Kdrama, normally it starts out great but peters out towards the middle and end, but this drama only got better and better. It also provided a few really funny and heartwarming moments.
I started watching this drama mainly because Gong Hyo Jin stars in it and I loved her in Master's Sun but I feel that the chemistry between her and Jo In Sung was a bit awkward and forced especially in the first half of the drama. (I guess we can't blame GHJ if she doesn't have the same chemistry with JIS as she did with So Ji Sub ;) ) Despite this they are both great actors and put on a stunning performance, I even cried a few times towards the end.
The music was great, it really fit the drama well, and I'll definitely be downloading some onto my iPod.
As for rewatch value, I may rewatch the last 3 episodes, but not the whole drama just because it was slow.
I would definitely recommend this drama if you want a heartfelt story and want to cry, or even just to see GHJ and JIS act. However don't be surprised if you find it difficult to get into, but the last half of the drama is worth sticking it out.
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And, Jo In Sung needs to pick up new works quickly, i'm dying of waiting for him to be on drama screen again. Stop hiding your handsome face, it's not fair for us. Gong Hyo Jin already picked two dramas after It's Okay, That's Love.
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Story
This is basically the story of broken people who try to heal each other. The trauma they had in their childhood still have vivid consequences in their adult life. It's not only a romance, it's not only a medical drama, it's both and so much more. The dialogues are so well-written and life-changing (and I don't even exaggerate).
Acting/Cast
The relationships between the characters are perfectly led. Mother-daughter/mother-sons/brothers/lovers/friends/colleagues every relationship is relevant and show the importance of social interaction on the way to overcome a trauma.
Heads down for the whole cast. Gong Hyo Jin & Jo In Sung are incredible but let's not forget the other actors who give a great dimension to their characters. Everyone is endearing and you just want more of them.
Music
Meaningful -- the songs fit the story and you will probably tear up listening to it later.
Rewatch value
I watched this drama in 2014 when it was released and again last month, it never gets old. I liked it even more this time because despite knowing all the plot twists, I still get surprised. I am 6 years older and mental health is much more meaningful today for me than it was back then.
Give it a try !!
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This is not a a romantic comedy nor is a a melancholy series. This was pure genius. It was sweet, beautiful and so good. The writing was amazing. This has to be one of the most heart felt k-drama's. The actors were amazing. They will make you laugh and cry. I loved this series. The real life situations that many experience is truly revealed. Definitely some tear jerking moments. The writers will make you fall in love with the characters. Not the typical perky k-drama but definitely upbeat and heartfelt. No loose ends. Everything came together nicely. There was romance, drama, mystery and a little action. Perfect.
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With a perfect blend of all elements, romance, humor, friendship and melo, the plot undeniably comes as a breath of fresh air to us drama addicts.That could be attributed to the fact the writers had sketched about such realistic characters that not only had their good sides projected, but also their weaknesses and fears, and due to the story's intention to show that its alright to admit that you can be weak since we're human and all of us do need help in order to become strong again. To use the subject of mental illnesses to express this intention is very well appreciated.
PLOT: GETS A 10/10 , for making the drama so intriguing, entertaining and at the same time for trying to create awareness about mental disorders and its prejudices that we have created. Our main characters, Jang Jae Yeol , and Ji Hae Soo have been created as such refreshing and honest characters, who have been able to delve into a comfortable relationship with each other despite telling the other off frankly if they did something that bothered the other and this leading to quite a bit of arguments between the two which are nevertheless enjoyable ( most of the time). It also needs to be mentioned how no supporting character were sidelined to simply showcase the main characters, with each of them having their own stories, achievements and downfalls in their relationships and life.
Acting: Not going to give a special review for the acting since the very ensemble of the cast would give an idea. The actors had done a great job in convincing me throughout that they were not merely playing a role given to them but were indeed living it, especially EXO's D.O, who impressed me right from the start of the show and set the bar so high for idols who want to venture into acting.
Music: A drama cannot be without its OST'S , and the ones for IOTL prove just that. They intensified each and every moment in the scene, making it memorable for the audience. Specially mentioning EXO' s Chen, Davichi , and Punch for their vocals which are powerful, soothing and emotion-driven all at the same time.
Rewatch Value: Since I don't usually re-watch the dramas that I watch once, the score here would be pretty low, this might definitely not be the case for other viewers is what I feel.
Anyhow not necessarily a drama that could please everyone, but surely one that needs to be given a try!
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But it feels kind of different and quite funny yet not too ridiculously funny. The situation is very real, like in the normal world where it's not only talking about couple love r/s, it's also talking about friends r/s, family r/s, colleague r/s, it's just complete, that;s why it's not boring at all. The pace is just nice, not too slow and not too long. It's quite unpredictable too, as i didn't think that the plot will get quite serious in the middle of the series. It also explain why certain people behave that way. People always have their own story and background to begin with, so we can understand each other more.
The protagonists are not perfect too, normally in other drama, the protagonist seems very perfect and the plot is cheesy, but this drama is not like that at all, it teaches us about hard-work to love people surround us, Love is not always like in fairy tale where people will live happily ever after, we need to put effort in order to love. Sometimes we also need to priorities others in order to love. So this story is very real. That's why i like this very much.
It certainly worth your time on watching this drama. It's not too heavy until u want to scream dying thinking about the plot, nor it is too light until u feel bored. Not at all, it's just nice to watch it after workday. It will enlighten your mood with it's quirky plot and witty jokes.
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Just perfect
If you want a drama that has everything, this is the one . The chemistry between the ML and the FL is just breathtaking . The friendship between the characters is beautiful.
It is very interesting how it approach the psychological problems.
You cry, you laugh and often think what’s life about sometimes.
If you like love triangles, suspense or conflicts between the characters, this drama is NOT for you. It’s a very different from the usual dramas (and I'm a fan of those too). no doubt not to be missed
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Mental Health and it's true dangers
I'm going to start by saying I have never suffered through any significant mental issues.I am also grateful to say that none of my friends and family have experienced anything major.
But regardless of that fact, I have always been interested in mental health. I often watch YouTubers talk about their conditions and all the misinformation that has been spread around.
(Some really good channels are: DissocialDID, Johnny Benjamin 1, and EDucating Shanny)
So whenever I watch a show or movie with mental health as one of the main topics, I'm always a bit skeptical since I know how wrong the mainstream media can get things.
But with this show, I was pleasantly surprised by all the truths it brought.
Stuff like how hard it can be for the family, the harm it can bring the patient, and all the changes that can happen in a person's life were all portrayed nicely.
So looking at the medical part of this show, I am delighted with it. But some things ruined the experience...
So let's move on from this long introduction and get on with the details...
Story 〆(・∀・＠): I was really excited about the medical parts of this drama as well as all the romantic ones. Two of my favorite genres were put together; how could I not be ecstatic!? So I went into this show with a very positive mindset, and the beginning seemed to support it immensely. You get a good look at the characters, their relationships, and a hint on their upcoming development. So even though it wasn't the most exciting beginning, you never felt bored since it was like getting an appetizer before the main course...
Unfortunately, that main course took a bit too long to come to the table...
Hints of the main issue were dropped throughout the show, but it seemed to take forever to actually get there. I'm not going to lie; I enjoyed seeing our psychiatrists help mentally struggling patients, but other than that, the story seemed extremely repetitive.
The main couple got into a fight ---> They make up for a short amount of time ----> They get into another fight.
Yeah yeah yeah, I know couples fight, but our main one just kept doing it over the stupidest things. Even the main female protagonist, Ji Hae-soo, admits that she tends to act like a bish. Sure she had her "reasons," but it was irritating as a watcher and something I don't want to have to sit through again.
What saved the show for me was the ending. Things were wrapped up nicely, and the final few episodes were interesting for their entirety. Ji Hae-soo became somewhat likable only for her family to become the new bishes.
Like seriously!!!! Why can't there be a time where I like everyone!?
As for the side couples, I didn't really care about them. The second main duo's relationship kinda sprung out of nowhere. They kept arguing and after one big fight... BOOM.... they just got together.....
I mean... sorry if I missed something... but what???
So all in all, the romance was very meh for me.
I'd say this show's strongest points was in friendship and the realities of mental health. You see people break down and hit the lowest point in their lives but are helped out of it by those close to them. You see people fighting to have normal lives and can't help but cheer them on through it all!!!!
Acting ｡゜(｀Д')゜｡: Acting was phenomenal!!!!! That's really all I need to say.
I mentioned that the characters had a tendency to get on my nerves, but that is solely due to the writing and not the actors themselves. When needed, they can tug at all the heartstrings and make you want to cry along with them. Jo In-sung is a fantastic example of how much talent these people have.
He appeared as such a happy go lucky guy all while showing how damaging it can be to force out a fake persona. His ability to show a character at the highest and lowest point in their life was breathtaking.
I could fully believe his struggles through his rough mental state and cheered him on with every step he made towards recovery!
Besides him, everyone had their moments to shine. There was not one particular actor that was carrying everything, and everybody seemed to work well together. The couples' chemistry may not have been the best due to writing, but the actors all seemed comfortable with each other and showed how important friendship can be.
So fantastic job everyone!! I hope to see you all again!!
Music ヾ(⌐■_■)ノ♪: This part of the show was absolutely hilarious.
I liked a lot of the music and always found myself paying attention to the translated lyrics (even though surprisingly, some of the songs were entirely in English). So music, in my eyes, was exceptional this time around.
What I think is funny is where the editors decided to put some of the songs.
Usually, you'd play a sad song during a sad scene and a happy one during a happy scene, but oh boy, these editors wanted to change things up. I loved watching a young boy get beat by his father to a cheery tune of someone singing about sunflowers or happiness (I don't remember the topic exactly). It really fit the scene of a suffering child
* sarcasm *
I don't know why they were added at such times, but it was interesting, nonetheless.
I don't know if I should hate it or love it, so I'll stay safe and neutral by saying it was definitely an experience...
Other (ง°ل͜°)ง: Since I, along with all my close ones, have never experienced anything significant in the mental department, I can't confirm or deny the legitimacy of some things.
From what I learned on my own, the show did seem true to many of the patients' conditions, and the writers didn't seem to add any un-needed dramatic flairs. Conditions seemed more severe and real in that sense.
So it's tough for me to talk about how accurate things are. If it was about physical health problems, I might have more to say, but that isn't the case.
I'm sure there are people who are much closer to the subject than I am and can give a more in-depth analysis.
So I'll end this part of the review here.
All in all, the show is a mix of love and hate.
I love how honest it is about mental conditions and how the writers don't try to add anything unnecessary for the sake of entertainment. What I hate about it is stuff like the romance and some of the character decisions that were made. I found myself bored and irritated for much longer than I'd ever want to be.
So when asked if I recommend it, I would have a different answer depending on the person.
If you're interested in medical shows, then go for it 100%!
But if that isn't your cup of tea and you are more focused on the romance, then I might be a bit more hesitant.
This show has a lot of strengths and weaknesses, so I recommend thinking a bit about it before giving it a shot.
Happy Watching <3
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And the music... I can't even begin to describe how good the OST was. Each song choice was perfect for the moment it accompanied and made me feel like buying the soundtrack CD.
To sum it up, this is a drama I strongly recommend.
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this is my first review and, the reason is that this drama is just SO AMAZING!
I did not expect it to be half as good, the actors convinced me,
I got so into the story that I honestly cried, laughed and just truly lived it!
The music is perfect, it is my fav soundtrack ever!!
IT MADE ME THINK, and that is what I like. It was not predictable, it was not simple, it got me, and that is not an easy think to do. I am a psychologist, and it made me to go to my DSM 5, and argue about some diagnoses xD, it made me really hooked and I wish that I could just unwatch and re-watch it every week.....
I must admit that it got pretty heavy at times, I sufferd from what I call PDSD (post drama stress disorder, similar to PTSD). I could not listen to the song "Hero", cause it made me cry (including flashbacks of the drama)....I could not hear the phrase "I miss you" in any other drama without getting all teary-eyed (that is actually still the case, but it got better after re-watching the whole thing).
But maybe also because of the sad parts I liked it so much, because I am not easily moved, and I rarely cry.....I would love to convince all of my friends and family to watch this!
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