Bom, mas poderia ser melhor.
comecei esse drama através do projeto do setembro amarelo do taled e achei genial, no início eu amei os temas abordados, como a história estava se desenvolvendo e como as doenças mentais foram tratadas com um olhar mais humano, não de cuidar dos pacientes como se fossem objetos a serem consertados, mas pessoas a serem libertadas dos olhares horríveis lançados pela sociedade.No começo o drama me deixou animada, os protagonistas tinham um conteúdo bom, não era maçante e insuportável. Mas quando o casal principal, jae-yeol e hae-soo começaram a ter uma aproximação, de alguma forma, foi se perdendo. A hae-soo começou a ser insuportável e ter umas atitudes que poderiam ser resolvidas na conversa, sei que ela tem tbm tem diagnósticos e tals, mas ela nunca queria dar a ceder e nem se tratava para mudar isso. Já o jae-yeol via que alguns momentos ele era bem complicado também, mas conforme foi mostrando ser pela doença dele que não era diagnosticado ficou mais fácil de entender. Então me questiono o por quê de tratarem a doença do jae-yeol e mostrarem os lados positivos da terapia, mas quando era a hae-soo isso nem foi pensado.
Também tive um sério problema com park soo e a so-nyeo, acredito que não deveria ter acontecido, eu achei algo desconfortável, se fosse só amizade acho que teria sido melhor. E o jo dong-min que não sabia o que queria da vida me irritava as vezes, baita relacionamento problemático com a ex.
Fora isso, foi um bom drama que infelizmente se perdeu com o passar dos episódios. Dei essa nota pois acredito que as doenças tratadas foram de uma forma empática e que nos faz pensar, o que nunca vi em outros doramas. Também gostei da forma que eles apresentaram os sintomas e como isso impacta a vida de todas as famílias.
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Só acho que todos deveriam conferir!
Apesar de já acompanhar doramas há um tempinho, eu amo conferir um drama antigo e acabei encontrando essa maravilha, que valeu cada minuto.Os temas abordados são sensíveis e foi apresentado de uma forma sensacional, vamos nos deparar com muitos distúrbios, como ansiedade, depressão, esquizofrenia e principalmente vamos ver como a família acaba sendo afetada.
E o que falar dos nossos protagonistas, eu simplesmente amei o nosso casal, a construção do romance e depois poder os dois enfrentando seus problemas e sendo sincero quantos os sentimentos, foi muito gostoso de acompanhar, assim como ver o drama mostrando o lado positivo e necessário da terapia.
Recomendo muito para quem não conferir, pois definitivamente virou um dos meus queridinhos.
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Eu amei muito o elenco, o enredo e o desenrolar do drama. É definitivamente um dos mesinho preferidos.
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O drama vai muito bem até o episódio 6 daí em diante é só ladeira abaixo. Fica maçante e tedioso de acompanhar. A protagonista fica chata e para mim foi extremamente difícil de assistir. Eu não entendi o motivo de tanta badalação por este drama. OK, a história da psiquiatria é um tema realmente diferente e nada comum em dramas Coreanos mas isto não sustentou este drama. No começo (até o ep. 6) a trama tem toda uma vibe de um filme norte americano dos anos 2000 como as 7 Regras do Amor por ex. mas depois as interações dos personagens fica cansativa e me arrastei para terminá-lo. Este foi o drama Coreano com mais músicas em Inglês que eu já assisti, desta parte eu gostei bastante.
Enfim, mais um drama que não conseguiu manter o ritmo até o final, não recomendo, não gostei.
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Todos deveriam ver este drama.
Fui ver para ver a atuação de DO e acabei me apaixonando pelo drama inteiro, perfeito em cada quesito.No quesito história é simplesmente maravilhoso, aborda algo extremamente necessário em nossa vida: SAÚDE MENTAL e que muitas vezes as pessoas que estão pedindo nossa ajuda estão BEM piores do que a gente possa imaginar.
Trás uma lição de vida, trás o enredo pra vida e isso é simplesmente perfeito, assisti, absorvi e indico de olhos fechados.
Sobre a atuação de todos, inclusive do D.O, são maravilhosas, cada personagem te cativa pelo que ele é, tu entende e respeita cada momento e fase da vida deles.
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Apenas assista
Com um protagonista masculino excelente e uma protagonista feminina muito boa , um roteiro muito bem escrito e um enredo muito interessante faz desse drama ser uma bela obra para ser contemplada.A execução deste drama foi tão bem feita tudo foi colocado de uma forma tão interessante, eu realmente gostei de tudo apresentado e fiquei extremamente viciada do inicio ao fim.
A forma como eles abordam o problema mental é fantástico, sutil e realista ao mesmo tempo , fiquei muito comovida , é algo que mexe com você, tinham episódios que não saem da minha cabeça.
Um dos motivos desse assunto ser tão bem retratado de forma tão realista devemos aos ótimos atores que se encontram nesse show. Eu adorei todos os personagens , eles fizeram a diferença todos contribuíram de alguma forma para o progresso da história. Eram personagens adoráveis, complexos porem foi muito bom de assistir a história deles.
Nesse drama você encontra tudo na medida certa, você vai ver comedia, romance, drama porém nada com exageros, num ritmo bom que te prende e não te deixa ficar entediado. Esse drama me fez divertir mais também me fez emocionar e chorar várias vezes. Aprendi tantas lições com esse drama e uma delas que o amor é a grande chave, se colocarmos mais amor em nossas vidas podemos super tudo.
O protagonista masculino fez seu papel com maestria, eu adoro esse ator, ele se entrega em seus papeis, ele desempenhou muito bem seu personagem me fez torcer por ele o tempo todo, ele era inteligente, maduro, romântico mais não bobo, sabia se impor e falar umas verdades quando era necessário, adorava quando ele se impunha e falava umas verdades para a protagonista feminina.
Falando em Protagonista feminina, tenho que confessar que no inicio foi difícil gostar dela porém com o passar dos episódios fui conhecendo melhor sua história e suas dores do passado e ai sim comecei a entender ela melhor e ela também foi progredindo muito como pessoa com o passar dos episódios. Mas é uma boa atriz, gosto muito de protagonistas assim independentes, inteligente , com opinião, determinada, adorei o estilo dela sempre na moda foi muito interessante acompanhar o progresso da personagem.
O amor entre os protagonistas era lindo, a química que eles tinham atravessava o monitor da minha televisão. Adorei ver os dois juntos os diálogos era tudo muito interessante. Foi formidável ver a amizade da protagonista feminina com seus colegas de casa e como eles contribuíram positivamente na vida e no romance dela. Você pensa nossa eu quero ter amigos assim em minha vida.
Algo que me chamou atenção foi a maturidade de todos os personagens, ai foi tão bom de ver isso em um drama. Outra ausência memorável foi daqueles clichês chatos e triângulos amorosos inúteis que vemos o tempo todo por ai.
Nesse show você não vai ver aqueles personagens maus e cansativos que fazem tudo para prejudicar o outro, nesse drama mostra que as vezes seu verdadeiro inimigo é você mesmo.
Então se você quer assistir um drama maduro, que aborda um assunto sério , algo que te faça pensar, vai fundo que esse drama é para você.
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For sake of argument, I am going to share something very personal. In 2009 I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. This isn't a condition that you catch like a cold, but rather one that manifests at a certain age and snowballs until it's nearly impossible to function. You can't prevent it through proper care, you can't always predict its onset and you certainly can't run from it. Essentially, bipolar disorder means I suffer from violent mood swings - severe bouts of depression and self-destructive manic states. Most people are familiar with depression on some level, but the idea of a manic state is foreign so I'll take a moment to explain it. If depression is an extreme state of sadness or hopelessness, you can think of mania as an extreme state of happiness. It's generally characterized by impulsive (and often destructive) decisions, lack of sleep and is almost always accompanied by the physical feeling of euphoria (you can think of this as something similar to the effects of several drugs like ecstasy.) This state is the most dangerous and, for me personally, meant that I would blow through money on drugs and alcohol, ostracize my friends and family because of an uncontrollable temper and sail off into the sunset feeling invincible. These impulses left my life in ruins.
I crashed hard during my third semester of college and had to withdraw. At my worst I was suicidal, faced with a crippling loneliness that I had never felt before. You can think of it like standing knee- deep and staring into a dark pool of water. The only light is the reflection of your own eyes and even those seem foreign to you. If you shout you're greeted by a distorted echo that you recognize as your own, but it's masked by an alien quality. In this sense, mental disorders create two yous; the you that you're familiar with and the stranger you can't recognize beyond a silhouette and the stain it leaves behind. You're a prisoner in your own body and every single day you feel yourself inching closer and closer to the water.
If there is a single safe harbor in all of this, it's love. When two souls dredge through the fire and connect, the bond can become unbreakable. Empathy is the great uniter; shared pain is like cement. Love will harden through pain. Two souls become pillars, lifting the other out of the water and into the sky. This is what separates this drama from the rest. This is why It's Okay, That's Love is a masterpiece.
Mental health is not a topic that is addressed very often in Korean dramas, and when it is it often comes across as comical. Mental health balances between something people think of as self-imposed, something you can shrug off if you try hard enough, and something to be afraid of. Because of this, it's usually presented as one of the two extremes: something too light, often existing as comic relief or a silly quirk meant to add flavor without substance, or as something too heavy, existing as some ethereal force that twists the mind into something less than human. It's Okay, That's Love is able to present something serious and keep a lighthearted tone without being insulting.
If you're looking at the melodrama tag and expecting something that borders on makjang, this drama is not that. The feeling of melancholy threads this drama together, but it does not weigh it down. You won't find endless sobbing, misunderstandings or two-dimensional characters. Instead, this drama showcases the marriage of two souls through unconditional love and growth. Love is strongest when flaws can fit together like a jig-saw puzzle, and the characters in this drama compliment each other perfectly. It's important to emphasize that these characters are flawed. Too often dramas shy away from characters with real problems and instead settle on external conflict to move the story in its entirety. The characters in these dramas are perfect outside of the experiences they undergo and the forces that act on them and it makes them two-dimensional. This is not the case in this drama. Most of the conflict is internal, but it's relatable and organic. Every single character is presented in a manner that allows you to love and empathize with them - it's a multi-layered story, the supporting cast is also very well-developed.
In addition to a perfect atmosphere, this drama does something almost unheard of in a Korean drama. It presents a love story that is not about the chase, but rather endurance. Adult topics such as sex, intimacy and trust are at the forefront and allow the drama to paint a picture of actual couplehood instead of traditional guy-chase-girl or girl-chase-guy fare. You'll watch the couple grow not only as individuals, but as loving creatures. It doesn't stop at love, either, the concept of friendship as a refuge is just as strong. The entire cast grows over the course of the show, and if you're anything like me, you will grow along side them.
I really can't gush enough about this drama. It's been a very long time since I watched something that resonated within me with such perfect harmony. The soundtrack captures the moods perfectly, the actors (from main to supporting) have realistic and beautiful chemistry. The melancholy is haunting, but it won't overwhelm you. I cried, I smiled, laughed and lived with this drama. I saw those two souls grow into a love so pristine that you honestly believe they cannot live without each other. The term soulmate can only apply when two people love each other unconditionally, and they both crossed the sea in a rowboat to reach it.
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The characters feel like real people that actually have impacts on everyone around them. This is awesome because many times writers of dramas tend to forget characters that aren't in the main couple/triangle. I love that this drama shows actions and reactions of so many people, all while being able to keep the viewers absolutely in love with the main characters. No one felt overshadowed or forgotten, and you can feel how everyone involved really cared about telling this story.
The cast is filled with some of my favorite actors of all time, so of course the acting is superb. The mark of a great actor is that you completely forget that they aren't their characters while onscreen, and the entire cast pulls this off perfectly.
As for the OST...probably the best I've ever heard. This is the first time I've purchased music from an OST, and I bought not one, but two songs from this drama. One particular song is used to drive the plot further emotionally, and in the two biggest scenes it's used, it works perfectly to really capture the viewers' entire being into that scene. Those scenes hurt so much, yet I found myself watching them over and over because of how heartbreaking they were and beautifully they were put together.
I already want to watch it again, and I've just finished! This has definitely become one of my favorite shows (not just kdramas!) of all time.
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The characters, the story, and the relationships were all so well thought out! I loved all of the characters, and they all have really wonderful relationships with each other- that are REAL. They fight, bicker, annoy the hell out of each other, get seriously frustrated with each other, and they realize that they all have their own flaws. And the story stays realistic, (funnily enough to say about a drama based on mental disorders) showing the true struggles people in relationships (wife, mother, girlfriend, brother, daughter, etc.) with people with mental disorders have to face. It's really wonderful. The cast acted out everything brilliantly- the emotions were conveyed very well and wow, some of the best acting I've ever seen.
AND THE MUSIC. *BREATHES DEEPLY* I DON'T KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN TO Y'ALL HOW MUCH I LOVED THIS OST. LIKE... THESE SONGS. THEY'RE GREAT. THEY FIT IN SO WELL WITH THE SCENES AND I'VE DOWNLOADED A BUNCH OF THEM AND I NEVER GOT TIRED OF THEM (like I have with very many other songs in other dramas) AND WOW. A++++++++++++++++++ TO WHOEVER PICKED THESE SONGS. A FREAKING PLUS.
Anyways, I totally recommend this drama! It's probably one of my all time favorites now and I loved this drama from start to finish!
For a country still dealing with its own discrimination towards mental disorders, I thought this drama was just plain- WOW. Wonderful. Seriously, good job!!! (I'm in awe)
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It's not just about love, this drama is about overcoming your own fears and problems with the help of people who understand you and are having their own personal problems, too.
The way they treat mental illnesses is great. They all have their own and the writers where really respectful during the whole storyline. Maybe you'll find some of the character's actions shocking, but then the backstory explains everything and you find yourself loving them.
The soundtrack is also amazing - i'm sure you'll download the songs to your phone the moment you finish watching it! they're perfect for every scene!
The acting is AMAZING. The way they potray the character's so real, you'll find it strange to watch them in other dramas!!
So... what are you doing if you haven't watched it yet??
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This drama is easily, without a doubt, the weirdest drama I have ever watched. From the very beginning and your first introduction to Soo Kwang, I could tell this drama was going to be different. It was amazing and so poignant, and I honestly believe that it might make some strides in reducing the fear and ignorance people have when it comes to mentally ill individuals.
First off, I want to say just how amazingly well suited the cast was to working with each other. Their chemistry was just phenomenal, and there was hardly a moment that went by that you weren't just so happy to see them all together. Soo Kwang and Dong Min's relationship was touching, and how much they fought for each other, and WITH each other, just felt so real and unique. They were a house of people that most other people would scoff at and call them all certifiably insane, but they also all loved each other unconditionally and that is rare.
As a Running Man fan, I was so excited to watch this for Lee Kwang Soo. I was a little worried when I heard his character, Soo Kwang, was going to have Tourette's, but Kwang Soo played it off absolutely brilliantly. This was my first Jo In Sung drama, but it will certainly not be my last. He was able to put on so many hats in this drama, from the romantic leading man, to the hurt little boy who has to face his childhood demons. I was seriously impressed with his range.
Story line wise, this drama always felt fresh and was almost never boring. There were a few times when I was irritated a little bit by how much the two main leads fought towards the middle of the drama, but it was definitely barely enough to knock it down half a point.
I really loved how this drama dealt with mentally ill individuals. It never made you feel like they were ridiculing them, and it really did its best to try and foster understanding that just because a person is sick, it doesn't make them any less deserving of love and happiness. I also loved how this drama really made you question who the bad guys were, and if sometimes you weren't your own biggest enemy.
The music in this drama was just phenomenal, as well. Almost all of it was English, but it was all so upbeat and perfect, it just completely enhanced every episode in every way.
So far, if I had to pick top 5 dramas of the year, this one would definitely win a spot!
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This is a romance/mystery drama about people who have to deal with mental ilnesses, which is pretty interesting to watch, since this serie deals with this in a pretty mature way.The acting of this drama is really great, unlike other drama the characters feel more realistic in their behaviour and acting. Music is nice and the general story and theme is pretty interesting.
Yet there are still some problems with this drama, if you are like me, having the second lead syndrome, wanting to watch this because you think you will finally get a less sexist, mature romance, then you might be a bit dissapointed. If you liked coffee prince or hana yori dango, then don't read any further, you'll definitly like this one, just go and watch it! : ), but if you are the kind of person who got red flag reactions when watching them, then you might also find this serie problematic.
One of the problems I had with this serie is that it still has the dominating male, while he is not as abusive as other male leads, there will be some scenes in it that gave me wtf reactions. There is also a side romance story,in which the male finally seems to get a spine, but then turns also in the typical dominating male, which the girl suddenly falls for. I've written down below some of the scenes which decreased the enjoyment I had wathing this show, I've removed the names to make it as less spoilerish as possible,
THIS MIGHT BE SLIGHTLY SPOILERISH, SO DON'T SCROLL BELOW, IF YOU REALLY DON'T WANT ANY SPOILERS!!!
The acting of this drama is really good, and the story and the characters feels more mature than other standard cliche drama's, but for me it went downhill after episode 9. Below are some of the things that destroyed the enjoyment of this show.
- female says she wants no sex on the trip. During the trip man gets suprised that she really meant this, saying that sex the ultimate act of love is, he acts angry and then leaves her. Later she goes to him, they make up and have sex. (ofcourse sex equals love cough cough*, what really would have been an atc of love is if he would've respected her boundaries, their relation is only a few months, and she has serious anxiety issues on intimacy, heck she even had problems with kissing)
- Male suddenly says that he goes out the house and live alone again and thinks that there is no problem with that, for it is because of work. I mean they have a serious relationship, they were living together, and the man suddenly says, "well, I'm going to live alone again for my work"... it is so bs, during the day he could just write at that place, and then just go home.
- female is seriously upset that her ex, who cheated on her, just comes into her house, because he works together with a roommate of hers. Nobody is understanding to her. The man the ex works with even screams at her saying that they otherwise would need to pay money somewhere... again bs they could have gone to the ex's house to talk about their work.
- There are two side characters, a male and a female, they divorced some years ago. The female tells her female friend that she finally realizes that her relationship with the male was 100% her fault (weird that she says this, but okay, it could be...). She says that her man wanted a child, but she secretly took contraceptives, she wanted to continue her career which would be impeded if she would get a child, at some point he found out and they divorced. Ofcourse what she did was wrong, but the fact that she thought that she could not be honest in her relationship already tells me that there was something already wrong in the relationship to begin with.
- Other side characters are a young man and female. In the beginning the girl practically uses him to get new stuff. I understand the female character, her mother left her at an early age, and she has a kind of absent father who fills the home with junk stuff. At some point the young man stops the relationship. I was like yay : D, he finally got some spine, he stops letting him being used. But then the story changes into the toxic idea "that if you save some person you'll get the girl". He helps her father, saying to him that he should not bring the junk home, but sell it to get some money... and suddenly the father actually does that, I am sure that the female character must have said it once in her life to her father, but that must not have impressed him, the young man magically fixed her father.
Then he gets angry at the girl for the fact that she talks bad about her father, he is still your parent afterall, she still should have respect for him... a father who has for a long time neglected her, he tells her how his own father kicked him out of the house, because of his mental ilness, but he still calls him every week to know how he is doing, if she still wants to have a relationship with him, she should say so before the count of three... (I would have rolled my eyes and walked away, but...), she looks at him in awe and says that she wants to be in a relationship with him. I understand that the young man's way of thinking, even though I disagree, what irked me the most was his counting down, like a parent to a child would do. The girl, while using other people, is pretty smart, if the man talked in a rational, equal way, it could've been the start of a mature relationship, yet instead we see how he acts to her like a parent to a child...
- In the end we see that the female protagonist gets pregnant, she's angry. The male protagonist pushed some weeks ago to have sex with her without a condom, which she actually didn't want to. When she tells him that she is pregnant, he silently walks out the room to the other male roommates. He tells them enthusiastingly that he becomes a father. They laugh happily. Female protagonist comes in, still angry. The male protagonist defends himself "But at that night she was so pretty"...(yeah right). The female starts to smile, and they laugh together. Later we hear that her study needs to be suspended two years. At the end the male protagonist jokely tells her to get another baby after this one. She tells him smilingly that she is angry at him, but at the end they still smile and kiss as if nothing has happened.
So this is still a better drama, than most cliche drama's, but everyone who says that this is such a 'mature' romance, they are lying, the cake does not exist, but it still has its sweet moments.
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