Dissapointed
I'm fresh from the joyous experience that was "The Master's Sun" and the perfection that was Gong Hyo Jin's performance as the woman whose life was derailed once she started seeing dead people. This euphoria needed to be continued, I said. So, without further ado, I jumped on It's Okay, That's Love.Notwithstanding that it's a completely different story, I just couldn't bring myself to care about any of the characters and that is my baseline when watching these dramas. The writers should at the very least make them likable, especially with a subplot as heavy as mental health and PTSD. Even more so when the leads both have past trauma. All I got from this was an irrational FL with serious anger issues.
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Ahead of its time
This is the drama that made me a fan of Gong Hyo Jin forever. She fills the screen with confidence and skill in how she portrays her character. And the writers were ahead of their time, telling a story that speaks to the importance of mental and psychological health with depth and understanding. I recently rewatched it to see if I still felt the same way, and I still do, sort of.What I love about this drama is that all the characters are well developed and have meaningful interactions with each other. I also like that, even though some of the instigating events from the past are k-drama troupes, they are executed with minimal makjang. The past unravels in a way that makes sense and fuels satisfying dramatic revelations. The tears you shed are warranted and built up so that they really mean something to the viewer.
One of my favorite characters is played by Lee Kwang Soo. He brilliantly portrays a man with Tourettes. He gives his character dimension and heart.
There are a few things I noticed after re-watching that caused me to lower my rating. For one thing, Jae Yeol treats Hae Soo really poorly while pursuing her in their relationship. There is quite a bit of inappropriate physical contact that she does not consent to, as well as a huge lack of respect, which could be a trigger for some viewers. As a more mature person, it bothered me a lot more than the first time I watched it, which tells me how vulnerable younger people can be when they look to kdramas for models of romantic relationships. Also, there are too many repetitive hints and flashbacks to the past so by the time you get to a big revelation the impact is diminished. Lastly, the pacing is inconsistent. The drama spends a lot of time exploring the rocky relationship between the leads, and then suddenly busts out the dramatics really quickly about half way through and doesn't explore how the characters deal with the situation with as much depth as it could have.
In the end, I applaud the risks It's Okay That's Love took to address challenges of mental health, and the acting is superb. I highly dislike the inappropriate physical contact and mean interactions in the main couple's relationship though. Despite these inconsistencies, it was a leader in bringing important mental health issues to the drama world.
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This drama will surely leave something to think about behind because it's so intense.
The story was very well thought through because it starts so harmless and you think it's gonna be typical romance comedy drama.
Well yes, the fact that Ji Hae Soo is a psychiatrist is kind of the frame of the story, because there are people with mental illnesses, caused by trauma or something else.
She lives in this house with her mentor who is also a psychiatrist and another guy who has tourette. Then suddenly this charming author comes along to live with them and Hae Soo is faced with actual feelings which she's trying to avoid and it's quite lovely to witness.
So, a love story is starting to develop....and then ... around the episodes 9-11 this drama seriously punches you in the face and despite knowing all the sad backround stories, those things that are happening will make you really really really emotional.
I loved the cast, their acting was so fantastic! I loved every aspect about it. this is one of the few dramas I really never skipped any scenes because it might got boring or what so ever, every scene was so well played and was so so important for the characters development. I also really enjoyed the things that were going with the support roles and how they build a home for Hae Soo and try to support her in any way.
They music was wonderful as well, made some parts even more emotional.
As for it's story, I wouldn't rewatch it right away, but at some point - maybe.
Overall this is one of the best dramas I've ever seen. And it's so heartbreaking to see certain aspects of mental illness that are shown and you really can feel the despair and the struggle those characters show us.
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I still can't believe that I didn't want to watch this drama When i first saw it i didnt know it's male lead(jo in sung ) and thought that he was un attractive -can you belielve it so i decided not to watch it -stubid i know - but luckily one Day I wanted to watch a fun drama so I saw an ost mv then decided to watch It - maybe it was one of the best things i've ever done -
I watched the first episode and didn't really like it much but i knew that most Korean dramas start with a weak episode -it wasn't that weak though- so I gave it a second chance and thank God I did because it was one of the best dramas I have ever watched
It had it all, whatever you're looking for it has it
Looking for fun trust me you'll find it sometimes my cheek bones really hurt because of laughing so much
Looking for romance it had one of the best chemisty ever
Looking for drama or sadness you'll definitely find it sometimes I cried really hard-espically in the last episodes-
Looking for great ost it had it, the song you're my best friend stuck in my head for weeks (yea it's not korean so what)
Looking for mystery or surprises, oh you'll find it you'll never believe...... ah right no spoilers sorry
Looking for medical stuff, proplems in the past,..... etc.
My point is it has it, all you'll never regret watching, trust me
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The drama makes its premise known early and clearly in the first episode, revealing backstory, current situations, and character personalities in a concise and easy to follow manner. That alone sets this drama above many others I've seen. In particular knowing the strengths and weaknesses of the character's personalities in such a complete way was shocking to me. Kdrama notoriously loves to play with personality traits throughout a show, throwing what the audience may have thought to be an intrinsic characteristic away as soon as its no longer useful. Though the clarity of certain premises and traits was welcome I also enjoyed the ambiguity about which character was the one with the most serious 'problems'. Toying with this question was a major source of intrigue and stimulation for me as I watched the show; a nice mystery to solve. Usually either our male or female lead will be clearly at a disadvantage in comparison to each other by the first episode, but this drama instead presents two equally successful and capable adults with heretofore unexplored mental illnesses. The audience is thus forced to take both equally seriously and this prevents one side of our fated couple from being discredited too early on into the show.
This brings me to our characters. Some truly grated on me in the beginning, some I felt were too one dimensional, and some were just great right off the bat. First for the characters I had some issues with...Soo Kwang was simply too childish for my liking. I understand that his disability left him feeling socially awkward and frequently impeded his social interactions but I did not see any valid reason for him to be perverted all the time. He showed marginal growth towards the end of the series but his character still left me feeling uncomfortable. Jae Bum's character also frustrated me. I feel that the show really failed with him. Where there could have been a rational and introspective exploration into Jae Bum's journey to come to terms with his past and present there was only stagnation and irrationality. So Nyeo is another problem for me. As I've said before I do not like Lee Sung Kyung, but in every drama I try to stay objective and judge her only on the role she is currently playing. Once again she has let me down. Her constant use of annoying female character stereotypes in place of realistic personalities and decisions is disappointing at best and infuriating at worst. She was simply rude at times and her personality deficiencies could not be explained away by her mental illness.
Allow me to now speak about our leads as well as some of the more palatable supporting characters. First Hae Soo...she is an imperfect female lead. She has personal issues in droves, is sometimes too self involved, and can be stubborn like no one else. But all of these issues just serve to make her more real, more relatable. While the hard working, always cheery female lead trope is nice sometimes it's not exactly something most of us can see within ourselves. Hae Soo on the other hand is more than her good or bad qualities. I feel this is best seen in her relationship with her mother. She is an imperfect human, just like the rest of us. Her character's flaws are what allow her to be a better person at the end of the series than she was at the beginning. My favorite aspect of her, though, is her commitment to herself. She loves Jae Yeol, no doubt about it, but she is also not willing to sacrifice her own well-being and happiness for him. That is called a healthy relationship. Speaking of Jae Yeol he too is perfectly imperfect. He of course has a score of personal and interpersonal issues from his past to his present and beyond. He goes on a heartbreaking and difficult journey to becoming a better, healthier version of himself. He is charming and fun and completely devoted to Hae Soo, but just like his other half, he is committed to himself and his family above all. By the end of the drama he is still recognizable in his good qualities, his intrinsic personality, but his flaws have been transformed into sources of strength. I'll end this character analysis with Kang Woo. First, I would like to take this moment to praise Kyungsoo's acting. I thought the hype I had heard about his acting ability may have been over played by EXO fans but he stands on his own merit. His character made this drama for me. The raw emotions he portrayed, the way he always left you guessing, the way he could make anyone empathize with him was amazing. He mirrored the veteran actor's emotions and performances so well and was able to embody everything Kang Woo was meant to be. Kang Woo himself, though a problem for our male lead, was pitiable but also funny and lighthearted and sweet. He perfectly balanced the harsh scenes with the light.
Overall this drama was a whirlwind of emotion and plot. It tugs at your heartstrings and leaves you reeling. It was a beautiful exploration into the human condition and is a drama that everyone should watch at least once. This is the kind of television that makes its watcher grow as a person.
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One of the worst Kdramas I've ever watched
I truly don't understand the high ratings most give to this drama. My best explanation is a phenomenon I've seen repeatedly on this site: If the actor(s) are well-known, popular, and/or beautiful people, it's very likely that a mediocre drama will receive 10's from everyone. (See "My Mister" as an example.)While this drama did an excellent job of dealing with the topic of mental illness, I was overly distracted by thoughts about how, while everyone is "broken," some people are more broken than others - and especially that they should work on themselves before seeking a romantic relationship. I realize that, in real life, that can't be necessarily avoided; but while this drama ends pretty well, if they did a realistic Season 2, they'd all be divorced and/or one of them would have literally murdered all the others.
Another downer for me was the Americanization of people's morals in this show. While young Koreans may truly be as sexually loose as depicted in this drama, one major reason I think many people escape to Korean dramas is that they are sick and tired of the "You kinda like me? I kinda like you! Let's have sex right now!" American shows. It hasn't worked out well in America, and Korea would be well-advised to retain their conservative Buddhist values which drives the purity found in most dramas (i.e. first kiss halfway through the series).
I'm trying to think what I did like about this drama, but I really hung on too long to watch it to the end. None of the characters were likeable at all, and I couldn't wait for it to end. I can honestly say that I didn't like anything about this drama.
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I've seen people on the internet say that this drama is over-hyped, and that they dropped it after a few episodes. Honestly, I had no idea it had hype before I watched it and I had a completely opposite experience. I know we all experience things differently, so I find myself fortunate to have had such a positive experience from watching this drama.
I have watched a lot of anime and a lot of dramas. For a while I considered "You Who Came From the Stars" and "Healer" to be my favorite dramas, but not any more. "It's Okay, That's Love" tops every drama I've seen in every department. Despite falling in love with so many other shows, this is the first show that made me hop onto eBay and purchase the DVD set the day after I finished watching it. Before that I felt anxious and troubled not to have the physical copy in my hands.
Before I watched this show, I was in a light depression. I had just started college and I was feeling depressed about having to complete all the stupid gen eds. I had no motivation and nothing was making me happy, until I saw this. This drama changed me. I am happier every day. I used to begrudge people, but now I love them. I don't care about the gen eds anymore because I feel positive that everything will get better.
Let me get into the actual review!
Story
Perfect. It starts out with a blurry picture of something that went down in the past, but you don't get the full picture until near the end. Many dramas do this, but this drama did it undeniably well. The realizations I had when the whole picture was finally revealed still make me tear up when I think about them. There was never a slow part. This drama had a message and it got that message through quite clearly.
Characters
Fantastic, my favorite part. So much detail was put into these characters. You hate and love parts of them. They feel human and their reactions feel real. I'm so sick of the annoying crap most dramas put their characters through onky to rush the ending unsatisfactorily. These characters weren't mistreated. They all played their part and made an impact on the story.
Cast
Fantastic acting. Sometimes the characters express things that you might miss if you don't look carefully. The actions are subtle, but present and they make the characters feel more human.
Music
This is a big thing for me. The music caught my attention on the first episode. This may seem sad, but this drama introduced me to a lot of English music I didn't even know about. The soundtrack was wonderful and listening to many of the songs immediately brings a smile to my face. A couple make me cry. The music just suits the show so well.
Overall
Watch it. Give it a try. Maybe if you're lucky like me, you'll get an overwhelmingly positive experience. I'm not exaggerating when I say that this drama changed me. It may sound silly, but it's reality and it changed me for the better. I've yet to come across a better drama. I've yet to watch a drama that has impacted me this much. If you don't like it, it's okay. No worries. If you do like it, I'm happy for you. Thanks for reading this review.
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A compelling concept, thought-provoking dilemmas, and an engrossing story.
This is what’s ridiculous; people who are suffering from cancer, or from severed limbs or people who are blind receive sympathy from others in this world but people suffering from mental illness are viewed as outcasts by everyone – as if they are diseased or something.— Dong Min / Sung Dong Il
This series is indeed a compelling drama to watch! I applaud this series for being brave enough to address delicate topics, particularly in the area of mental health. I admire the creators of this show for confronting prejudice and social stigma against persons with mental illnesses. They did an amazing job of breaking the taboo and delivering an eye-opening piece of art.
This show has effectively caught my eye. It provoked my curiosity to perceive what might occur straightaway. It functions admirably with a wide scope of feelings. The sweet, insightful, despairing storyline, nice pacing, and a pitch-amazing outfit layered the film.
The characters have such a realistic portrayal as neither one of them are "perfect." Despite their inside inconveniences and pasts, they are both broken individuals who figure out how to love each other.
Sung Dong-Il may come across as unnecessarily boisterous at times, but he genuinely portrays his scenes brilliantly. There is some optional sentiment in this, but you'll have to decide for yourself. The relationships between the housemates and their companions are at first somewhat befuddling from the get-go, but you either get used to it, or they somehow appear to co-exist. That being said, this show has really touching elements. It has an intangible element that makes the audience feel wonderful and make them grin all the way around. It will drive you into a tizzy of emotions, causing you to cry and laugh at the same moment.
"It's Okay, That's Love" is an excellent heap of adoration and good faith sprinkled with spaces of odd, as I would like to think. It was light, mitigating, and inspiring regardless of its mental topic. An amazing series with a convincing plot, powerful contentions, and extraordinary exhibitions from the group that will make a permanent imprint on the hearts, all things considered. The out-of-the-container idea is the thing that makes this an exceptional gem of a show.
X0X0 <3
---Taemangi
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At first glance, I admit that I thought this drama would be one of those cliché romances between housemates, but as episodes went by, I gradually became aware of how wrong I was. The story was very well written. They approached the subject of mental illness in such a realistic way that I was really impressed. I'll forever have on my mind one of the scenes towards the end in which Soo-Kwang explains to Jae-Yeol how mental illness works, to me it is undoubtedly the best scenes I've ever seen in a drama. Something in which this drama stands out is also that they value the supporting characters and do not forget them from one episode to another, something that is very common in kdramas.
The romance between Hae-Soo and Jae-Yeol is the most wonderful thing that ever happened in my life, though for a while I thought Jae-Yeol didn't really love Hae-Soo, maybe because of the speed with which they ended up becoming a couple. This drama is not about the path to love, but about all the bumps a couple has on their way to happiness. Our two protagnostits have a very complex past that make them the people they are now days, and throughout the drama this part of there lifes is explored in a brilliant way.
I can not forget to mention the supporting characters who also had a great role in making this story wonderful. Soo-Kwang was brilliant, I loved his romance with So-Nyeo, despite the age difference, I found it very cute. Dong-Min, a very important character because without him perhaps the drama had not taken the path it took. I also found his relationship with his co-worker Yeong-Ji very interesting. And in a way each character that appeared in the story contributed to make this drama wonderful.
Cast / Acting: The cast of this drama was brilliantly chosen. The chemistry between Gong Hyo Jin and Jo In Sung crossed the screen, they simply matched. I had never seen any work from either of the two main actors and I'm very curious to see more of their work, because they are very talented. All the supporting cast was also fantastic in their performances, and I have to make an honorable mention to Lee Kwang Soo for his brilliant performance in his character with a somehow very complicated disorder.
The OST is simply the best I've heard in a drama, though most of the songs are in English. "Cross My Mind" continues to play in my head right now as I write this review. The songs combined with the atmosphere of the drama and with the scenes themselves.
In terms of picture, it's a beautiful drama, no doubt, but in terms of technique doesn't stand out from any other drama.
Will I watch this drama again? Yes, no doubt. This drama is to watch and rewatch, to fall madly in love with each character again. It's definitely a must watch for any dramalover out there. I really regret not having watch this pearl before.
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One of the best.
A breath of fresh air. Like a white rose that stands out from a red rose garden. It's Okay, That's Love is a drama that don't need to have a crazy love triangle, amnesia, or 'us-against-all-odds' to be dramatic— but refreshing at the same time. The chemistry is flattering, overwhelming and insane. You would see them bickering at times but you could say that's because some of their personalities really contradicts with each other. But those love scenes? Chef's kiss. Raw. Soulful. The wholeness of their characters is beyond commendable, too. I love how they are not made two-dimensional and flawless. It feels like they are normal and real people with hidden battles.Here are the good and bad points that I pointed out on the drama that I could still remember. Let's start with the bad points:
1. The two leads fight and bicker a lot on the first episodes that you might find it annoying.
2. There are force kissed scenes, which is not a really good thing for me, considering how Jae Yeol knows about the heroine's case.
3. There's a really awkward and weird relationships between the characters.
4. The cinematography could have been better, at least for me.
I think there's more but I forgot about them since it's been months since I finished watching it.
Moving forward to the good points!
1. The character. Not just the heroine, not just the lead— but everyone. The acting is just really spectacular. You could see those raw emotions in their eyes, I especially commend Jo In Sung, D.O and Gong Hyo Jin. I want to drop my favorite scenes were I was really awestruck and carried away by the scene but I want to keep this spoiler free.
2. Their relationship's maturity. I really love how they handled their relationship. Especially that there is no dramatic or over the top break ups that happened.
3. Han Kang Woo and Jang Jae Yeol. Sorry, but I have to mention it again. I cannot just skip it. All their scenes together, especially those last parts. Oh goodness. You can not be not move by it. I was in tears the whole time.
4. The whole concept and plot. I love how they tackled sensitive topics about mental health and illnesses that are not commonly put in dramas. It is not in a way that you will find insulting. They incorporated it well with the things that are happening.
5. The OST! The music is well incorporated with the scene and I guess one of the factors why it has that refreshing vibe. I still listen to the songs on this drama as I am really in love and could connect with them.
Considering that this drama is made years ago, I could say that it greatly stands out— and still stands out— from the other dramas. I would love to see a remake of it with better shots and plot but same actors. It's Okay, That's Love is totally unforgettable. The whole drama is a roller coaster ride, to be honest. You'd laugh and cry at the same time. It's definitely worth watching.
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