Japanese BL/Gay - BL and Gay dramas and movies from Japan
BL/Gay themes movies, dramas and short movies from Japan.
For a comprehensive list of Asian (China including Taiwan and Hong Kong), Japan, South Korea and Thailand; see my huge list for Asian BL/Gay movies and dramas (at the moment; 771 titles and counting.) Also see my separate BL lists for each country, lists for Short movies and mini-dramas sorted by country, and other lists.
List will only contain titles in which BL/Gay/Male Bi couples/characters/themes, have at least a somewhat prominent role.
***(Titles with (only) Trans characters; not included--a Trans woman who loves men is straight, not gay.
Crossdressing has nothing to do with gender identity so titles with cross-dressing guys who like guys; included.
Bodyswap is (reluctantly) included.
Bromance if there is an implication that it is/will go beyond friendship)***
Adding titles and comments every now and then.
Note; To make it simple; I'll just call BL, even if it would be more correct to say; stories about guys who are attracted to guys.
"Gay theme" and BL are two different things.
But as long as one can tell fantasy from reality--it's a convenient word.
Another note; Included are dramas made of the manga "Hanazakari no kimitachi e". Even if it's not BL, there is a beautiful point made, which I think deserves attention because it's present in a manga/drama which has no BL connection.
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1. 46 Billion Years of Love
Japanese Movie - 2006
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2. A Cappella
Japanese Movie - 2016
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3. A Touch of Fever
Japanese Movie - 1993
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4. Absolute BL
Japanese Special - 2021, 1 episode
This is fricking hilarious.
I laughed my ass off--and I'm not a person that's all that easily swayed past the level of occasional giggles. (But if you aren't one for sarcastic humor, you might not be quite as amused as I am.)I'm immensely entertained by everything that makes fun of BL, since no matter how much of a fangirl I am--I'm also a cynic... (And too old and hardened to wear rose colored glasses 24/7...)
We've seen a bit of it lately--with Thai dramas "Why RU?" and "Lovely Writer" (haven't watched the latter, though), but this is different. It really, REALLY shows off all the nonsensical things with BL--outright and literally, not just with a wink. And it's great.
Here--one is allowed to laugh one's ass off at pathetic situations, predictable plots and cheesy stuff :D We're meant to.It's not mean, not condescending and not judgemental--just sarcastic hightlighting of the stuff in BL that would make anyone roll their eyes if they weren't so caught up in a BL-high. All seen through the eyes of a dude that rivals even me in terms of having a sarcastic view of the world.
It's unique in its storytelling and definitely one of my favs for this year. It becomes a little bit haphazard towards the end, so it doesn't quite hold all the way--but all in all, it's a little gem of a different flavour. Love it.
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5. Agridoce
Japanese Movie - 2016
As far as I understand; no BL, but with one of the MCs being gay.
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6. Ah, Wilderness
Japanese Movie - 2017
Not sure about the actual BL content, but at least has Gay character(s).
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7. Ai no Kotodama
Japanese Movie - 2007
Old School Japan
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8. Ai no Kotodama 2: Sekai no Hate Made
Japanese Movie - 2010
Old School Japan
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9. All Night Long II
Japanese Movie - 1995
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10. Angel in the Toilet
Japanese Movie - 1999
Short.
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11. Anger
Japanese Movie - 2016
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12. Antique
Japanese Drama - 2001, 11 episodes
Old School Japan, based on (at that time super-popular) manga. BL hints are almost all wiped out, if I remember correctly. (Haven't watched it for a looong time, nor will I rewatch.)
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13. Após O Recomeço
Japanese Movie - 2020
So... Waiting for this title, I was apprehensive.
Furukawa Yûki in a BL role? Could work. I've never been a fan, but he did do a pretty good job in "Erased".
How about the manga? Well... it's cute. Mediocre, but cute.I finally got my dirty paws on the movie, a while ago.
It's actually really cute, and a good adaptation of the manga :) Furukawa, once again, convinced me that he's actually talented, and not just the annoying dude from sleazy, crappy Shoujo-adaptations. He was pretty fricking adorable in this one :)
It's innocent, it's grounded, it's simple and it's really, really sweet. Totally in line with Japan's new style in BL--and I really, really love their 180-turn. (Or, perhaps their TWO 180 turns... From plastic manga-crap--to two polar opposites... Everyday love--and dark and twisted...)
I'll admit that I've only watched it unsubbed, so far. There doesn't seem to be any English subs available yet, but they should be out soon. My Japanese is weak, I'm far from skilled enough to be able to pick up more than the rough outlines of dialogue--but I HAVE read the manga, so I'd say I get the picture well enough to be able to rate the flick.
Definitely worth a watch!
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14. April Fools
Japanese Movie - 2015
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15. Asymmetry
Japanese Movie - 2008
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16. Athlete
Japanese Movie - 2019
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17. Be Love
Japanese Drama - 2020, 4 episodes
Mini-drama.
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18. Berlin Drifters
Japanese Movie - 2017
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19. Black Art Collection -Testimony-
Japanese Special - 2020, 1 episode
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20. Boku no Kareshi wo Shokai Shimasu
Japanese Movie - 2009
Old School Japan. Pretty sure I've watched it but can't remember a single thing... Which would probably mean that it sucks.
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21. Bokura No Ai No Kanade
Japanese Movie - 2008
Old School Japan
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22. Call Boy
Japanese Movie - 2018
I'm actually not sure if this belongs on the list, at all. It's been listed with "LGBT" and similar tags, here and there--but the synopsis mentions nothing about it. Perhaps the MC swings both ways. When I feel motivated, I'll check to be sure.
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23. Candy and Kiss
Japanese Movie - 2015
One of the crappiest of the bunch of Japanese BLs based on mangas. It's your run-of-the-mill typical Japanese BL. Harmless, meaningless, kind of cute--and totally forgettable.
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24. Cherry Magic!
Japanese Drama - 2020, 12 episodes
This is so simple--just your basic, lightweight, by-the-book cliché BL manga (here in live action version)--but darn, is it fricking feelgood...
At times, quite hilarious--but mostly just... cute and puts a smile on your face.Add to that a pretty nice production and decent acting--that wraps it up as one of the most endearing BLs of 2020.
I can't rate it higher than this, since it's just TOO light weight to make an impact, but it's so sweet that I'm not bothered by its silliness and ridiculous innocence.
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25. Coming Out
Japanese Movie - 2014
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26. Dare Yori mo Mama wo Aisu
Japanese Drama - 2006, 11 episodes
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27. Dia dos Namorados / Rokkaku
Japanese Special - 2020, 1 episode
Short special episode for the drama "30-sai made Dotei dato Mahotsukai ni Narerurashii" (damn, that title's always a bitch to write...)
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28. Does the Flower Bloom?
Japanese Movie - 2018
Based on the lovely manga "Hana wa Saku Ka?" by mangaka Hidaka Shoko (another of my favs). A mellow, gentle little story--and I think the movie managed to adapt the story and the atmosphere of the original work, very well.
Unfortunately, it would have needed a longer runtime in order to flesh out the story and make it less shallow. In the manga, the relationship develops slow and much softer than here--where it becomes a little bit too haphazard.
The chemistry between the leads doesn't work for me and that's due to Amano Kousei's non-convincing acting. He does his best but does not catch Sakuragi's feelings for Youichi and feels awkward in their interactions even if Watanabe Tsurugi works his ass off trying to meet him halfway. (In case you haven't read the manga; it's not Watanabe being stiff, it's his character. He makes a good portrayal.)
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29. Double Mints
Japanese Movie - 2017
This... is definitely not for everyone. I, for one, went ballistic when I heard the news about it being filmed. I just couldn't believe that someone would choose THIS title to adapt into a live action. The manga is already in itself provocative and far from an easy-chew. Nakamura Asumiko is one of the greatest mangakas ever, IMO, but her art is not for everyone and some of her stories are heavy and dark enough to make many BL fans shy away.
This one is one of her darkest, and pretty much one that one either loves--or hates. It takes effort to understand these twisted characters and their screwed-up, but profound relationship. They're not likable at all, there is nothing cute about their love, their bond is much stranger than that. So to turn it into a movie was a bold move.
It turned out good. And bad. Some parts were exceptionally well adapted and it catches the dark and menacing beauty of the original story, but other parts didn't work. Some things have been beautified, thus losing much of the original complexity in their relationship dynamics. Also, some balance is lost between dark and light, making the full picture somewhat crooked and haphazard.
But I still love this dramatization of a great manga, because of the parts that truly captures the story--and because there are far too few dark fairy-tales in the assortment of BL. -
30. Dousoukai
Japanese Drama - 1993, 10 episodes
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31. Edo of Candy
Japanese Movie - 2015
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32. Escolhendo o Cônjuge na Loteria
Japanese Drama - 2018, 8 episodes
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33. Esola
Japanese Movie - 2013
Short.
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34. First Love
Japanese Movie - 2007
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35. Forbidden Love
Japanese Movie - 2008
Old School Japan
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36. Forever Summer
Japanese Movie - 2015
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37. Formigas sem Guarda-Chuvas
Japanese Drama - 2016, 4 episodes
Doubtful whether it belongs on the list or not. I haven't watched it and I doubt I will, but supposedly the BL content is very, very small and perhaps rather should be called Bromance.
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38. French Dressing
Japanese Movie - 1998
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39. Fujimi Orchestra
Japanese Movie - 2012
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40. Fujoshi, Ukkari Gei ni Kokuru
Japanese Drama - 2019, 8 episodes
I haven't watched all episodes in subbed version--(only eps 1-4 were available fansubbed when I watched the drama. I'm planning to rewatch it ASAP...) and even though I do speak some Japanese, I can't claim to understand more than part of the dialogue, when I watched eps 5-8 unsubbed.
Even so--this drama is AWESOME. It's something unique, showing the confusion and coming of age of a gay teen in a society that does not accept homosexuality--from a totally different angle than anything we've seen before.
The framework with Queen's music and all kinds of little poetic and philosophical adds (I loved the play between the leads when imagining love stories about the things around them...) gives a unique touch and the narrative voice/storytelling from the MC is done in a great and imaginative way.
Some people have totally misunderstood the whole thing about "gay dude in a relationship with a fujoshi". Watch the damn thing before you draw conclusions. Wanna bet on how many gay kids have tried straight dating before they figure out what will work and what never will? And their relationship is beautiful--no matter if it's romantic or friends, because their connection is real. The point here is not to promote reprogramming gays, but to show how confusing it can be to accept oneself--and how pressure from society and family can make us try to fool ourselves and do things we don't truly wish to do.
This is definitely (based mainly on the episodes I have been able to watch with English subs) the best Gay themed story to come from Japan, to date.
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41. Given
Japanese Drama - 2021, 6 episodes
Looking forward to this live action--with equal amounts of horror and excitement...
Release July 17th 2021.
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42. Gonin
Japanese Movie - 1995
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43. Hana Kimi Remake
Japanese Drama - 2011, 11 episodes
Japanese remake of "Hanazakari no Kimitachi e". See notes in list description. Skip this one and watch the original drama instead...
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44. Herói
Japanese Drama - 2019, 6 episodes
Mini-drama.
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45. His
Japanese Movie - 2020
Movie sequel to the 2019 drama series "His: I Didn't Think I Would Fall in Love".
It was really good, actually. Better than the drama.
Like its previous installment, it continues that "organic" feel--realistic and sombre in tone and expression. It doesn't make a fuss of things, it doesn't stray into melodrama, it just tells the story of two guys and their relationship through ups and downs. Exactly my cup of tea.
The Japanese BL usually goes in one of two directions; either it really stacks up a shitton of enhancers as to reaaaally make the audience FEEL it--or it refrains from all of it, and lets the acting and scenes speak for themselves. This belongs to the latter category. It took me quite a while to react to the fact that there was absolutely no score whatsoever. (Later on, there was a bit.) And you know what--it wasn't needed. It actually even made it better.
When they get it right--no one does realism as well as the Japanese.I like cutesy and cheesy BL as well--but what I find most rewarding, are stories like this one. Fairytales can be nice, but what touches me--are the love stories that are relatable.
Since I love this type of storytelling, I really appreciated the effect that the simplicity of direction and production, brought. The acting is good as well.
Not to be missed.
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46. His - I Didn't Think I Would Fall In Love
Japanese Drama - 2019, 5 episodes
This was a breath of fresh air in the assortment of sweet teen BL. A simple little thing--light, (very) innocent and endearing.
Japanese BL used to be so syrupy and manga-plastic-fake that I couldn't stand it (but one took what one could get, back in the days when Japan was the only go-to for a fix of boys-on-boys.) But nowadays, their style has started to change a lot.
My preference in BL/Gay themed things--even if I like everything from super-artsy stuff to braindead junk--are the stories of the more mellow and realistic kind, the everyday love stories of normal guys--because I find reality beautiful enough to be worth telling about. If it's too glossy, too shiny, too unrealistic--it doesn't get to me. But when the setting, and the people, are real--I can relate on a deeper level.
This is a gentle little coming-of-age love story, set by the coast--in the Kamakura area, the surfing Mecca of Japan. The setting with surfing and the ocean, was something I've longed to see. There are quite a few surfer-BL mangas and I love surfing and especially I love the ocean. (One of my all-time-fav BL movies is a surfer one--the US indie flick "Shelter" from 2007. A simple, low budget little thing, but it's lovely.) We can all agree on that the sea always has had a special place in love stories. It's romantic, period. Here, it also gives a feel of youth and freedom.
The production is simple, but sufficient and enhances the realism. The acting is very good from basically everyone but Kura Yuuki (Nagisa) has something special. (And the kid is ridiculously beautiful.)
The story is a bit oddly paced so it becomes too rushed in the conclusion--and the focus isn't really where it should have been, a lot of the time. Which is the only reason I don't rate this higher.
A movie sequel was released this year, too. I'll be eagerly waiting for a subbed version.
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47. Hong Kong Night Club
Japanese Movie - 1997
(Yes. It's on the right list. It's a Japanese flick.)
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48. Hush!
Japanese Movie - 2002
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49. Itsuka no kimi e
Japanese Movie - 2007
Old school generic Japan.
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50. Jinroh Shokei Game
Japanese Movie - 2015
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51. Junjou
Japanese Movie - 2010
Old School Japanese kind-of-classic. Adapted from the manga with the same name, by one of the most popular BL mangakas of that time, Fujiyama Hyouta. I do like the manga, but the movie is pretty crappy. Mostly due to really weird miscasting and acting.
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52. Juventude Assassina
Japanese Movie - 2018
Not BL, but a gay MC. Adapted from award-winning manga.
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53. Kanojo ga Sukina Mono wa Homodeatte Bokude Wanai
Japanese Movie - 2021
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54. Kare ga Boku ni Koishita Ryuu
Japanese Drama - 2020, 4 episodes
Mini-drama.
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55. Kare ga Boku ni Koishita Wake 2
Japanese Drama - 2021, 10 episodes
Sequel to drama "Kare ga Boku ni Koishita Wake".
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56. Killing Curriculum: Jinroh Shokei Game - Prologue
Japanese Movie - 2015
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57. Kira Kira Hikaru
Japanese Movie - 1992
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58. Lição Do Mal
Japanese Movie - 2012
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59. Life Senjou no Bokura: Director's Cut
Japanese Movie - 2020
Compiled movie version of "Life - Senjou no Bokura" mini-drama.
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60. Like Grains of Sand
Japanese Movie - 1995
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61. Love Place: Hakanaki Kata Omoi - Gaiya no Koi
Japanese Movie - 2013
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62. Love Place: Shiawase no Katachi
Japanese Movie - 2013
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63. Love Stage!!
Japanese Movie - 2020
Live action-adaptation of the super popular classic BL manga with the same name.
(Which I haven't read, since it's not my cup of tea. Whether I will watch the movie depends on the reviews, I guess.)
Upcoming June 5th 2020. -
64. Lychee Light Club
Japanese Movie - 2016
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65. Mayonaka kimi wa kiba o muku
Japanese Movie - 2014
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66. Mayonaka no Kita-san, Yaji-san
Japanese Movie - 2005
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67. Meninos Apaixonados 2
Japanese Movie - 2007
Old school Japan. Even crappier than the first movie.
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68. Monsterz
Japanese Movie - 2014
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69. Mood Indigo
Japanese Drama - 2019, 6 episodes
Based on Marukido Maki's manga "Indigo no Kibun" which in both comic and drama form is a sequel to "Pornographer", but chronologically a prequel.
Warning for VERY explicit content. (Or a plus point--depending on your level of tolerance for R-rated content...)
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70. Naughty Boys
Japanese Movie - 2001
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71. No Touching At All
Japanese Movie - 2014
Doesn't have the best of ratings, but I think it's a fairly decent adaptation of the classic BL manga "Doushitemo Furetakunai" by my House Goddess Yoneda Kou.
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72. O Amor de Ossan O Filme~AMOR ou MORTO
Japanese Movie - 2019
Movie sequel to the first of the two full lenght drama versions of the "Ossan" series.
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73. O Amor Entre Garotos
Japanese Movie - 2006
Old School Japan. Classic, but crappy.
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74. O Marido do Meu Irmão
Japanese Drama - 2018, 3 episodes
Mini-drama.
Supposedly very good, but I haven't gotten as far as to watch it.
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75. O Que Você Comeu Ontem?
Japanese Drama - 2019, 12 episodes
One of the most charming, and different, gay themed dramas from recent years--a great example of the super-refreshing new path that Japanese BL/Gay has chosen to explore. Straight-forward, more realistic every-day type of stories, far from the fluffy and silly junk they've churned out previously. (Other titles would be "Fujoshi Ukkari Gei ni Kokuru", the "Ossan" series and "My Brother's Husband"--the latter I unfortunately haven't been able to get my paws on. Yet.)
This is SO charming, SO lovable, SO down-to-earth and just... cozy.
Feel-good.
Like a nice, hearty meal. ("Kinou Nani Tabeta?" = "What did You Eat Yesterday?") -
76. O Que Você Comeu Ontem?
Japanese Movie - 2021
"Kinou Nani Tabeta" movie - upcoming 2021.
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77. O Que Você Comeu Ontem? SP
Japanese Special - 2020, 1 episode
Special for the drama "Kinou Nani Tabeta?"
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78. O Romancista
Japanese Drama - 2018, 6 episodes
This is pretty close to flawless, IMO.
I can't quite give a 10 because I wanted a bittersweet conclusion rather on the bitter side than the sweeter. And for perfection, it would have needed just a tad bit more time in order to fully flesh out this hypnotic little tale. But for the short runtime and episode count--this is nothing short of remarkable. I guess a 9 would do but at the same time, I', itching to praise it even more than by rewarding it with "just" a 9.A true piece of art in both visuals, acting, directing and overall production. The story is so hypnotic that I couldn't tear my eyes off the screen. Told in a clever and impactful way, it blurs the lines between reality, fiction and fantasies.
A drama I will rewatch many times--for the experience, rather than reasons like loving the couple or story or whatever.
I found myself breathing so quietly that it was inaudible, subconsciously trying to not disturb the atmosphere. Let's not even mention during the erotic scenes--your breath will hitch all together... Though, the whole thing is erotic from beginning to end, but during the actual action scenes, then. Graphic, but tasteful.It's not for everyone. Someone prude would probably die from a seizure. (I'm everything but prude--but that level of dirty talk made even me blush a couple of times...)
Someone too young is not mature enough to fully understand the complex feelings and urges handled. Someone who wants entertainment should look elsewhere. Because this is a qualitative cinematic experience, not something to watch in order to pass timeIt's immensely fascinating, gorgeously executed, the acting is phenomenal. It's a gem.
Also watch "Mood Indigo" ("Indigo no Kibun"), a prequel (but released after this) probing into the past of the characters.
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79. Okoge
Japanese Movie - 1992
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80. Ooku
Japanese Movie - 2010
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81. Ossan's Love
Japanese Special - 2016, 1 episode
First version of the "Ossan" series, a shorter special. Also see the two drama versions plus special plus movie.
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82. Ossan's Love
Japanese Drama - 2018, 7 episodes
Second version of the "Ossan" story, here in a drama version as opposed to the previous version, a shorter special. Me like!
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83. Ossan's Love: No Céu
Japanese Drama - 2019, 8 episodes
Third version of the "Ossan" series--it's strange, you have the same story repeated over and over but in this drama you have a different setting compared to the earlier one. But the same story and MC.
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84. Ossan's Love: No Céu SP
Japanese Special - 2019, 2 episodes
Special for the second drama version of the "Ossan" series.
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85. Our Future
Japanese Movie - 2011
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86. Para Vocês na Flor da Idade
Japanese Drama - 2007, 12 episodes
Not BL--but with a certain story component. See notes in list description.
Silly, low-budget and quite corny--i.e. a pretty typical Japanese drama for that time. But it has heart and the Shoujo manga on which it's based, is a classic. -
87. Patalliro!
Japanese Movie - 2019
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88. Porngrapher: Continued Spring Life
Japanese Movie - 2021
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89. Pornographer
Japanese Movie - 2021
Movie sequel to drama "Pornographer".
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90. Pornographer - Spring Life
Japanese Movie - 2021
Short-film sequel to drama "Pornographer".
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91. Quite Ordinary
Japanese Movie - 2011
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92. Renai Shindan
Japanese Drama - 2007, 12 episodes
Old school Japan.
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93. Saimon & Tada Takashi
Japanese Movie - 2018
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94. Saitankyori wa Mawari Kudokute
Japanese Movie - 2019
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95. Saitankyori wa Mawari Kudokute: Ame to Soda Mizu
Japanese Movie - 2020
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96. Saitankyori wa mawari kudokute: rakka ryūsui
Japanese Movie - 2020
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97. Same Difference
Japanese Movie - 2014
Super-crappy adaptation of a crappy, clichéed yaoi manga. The actual physical BL content is so tame that it's ridiculous, if I remember correctly.
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98. Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa no Yoru
Japanese Movie - 2021
Oh boy.
I'm hesitating between 5,5 and 6. And to be honest--that score would be lower if it weren't for the decent production.
I'm a die-hard fan of Yamashita Tomoko, the mangaka behind the original work. It's not one of her best, but I do love it and own every volume. So it hurts to be this ruthless :S
This was bad... A bad adaptation of the manga--but also a bad movie in itself. Probably even worse for someone who hasn't read the comic...
Bad casting choices (actors are okay but their interpretations are way off from the original characters), stupid changes in story and script, a very important character is wiped out entirely, focus is almost exclusively on visuals (which are nice, including decent SFX) and the fluidity and continuum of the story is just ignored completely... It's one hot, choppy, jumbled mess...
The writing is the biggest issue--the movie has no coherency, no depth or exploration of either story nor relationships--which makes both shallow, unconvincing and random. The characters in the manga are fairly well fleshed out but above all, their relationships are thoroughly cemented. Here they were, like... "Huh? How? When?" From "hello" to "destined" in zero time, without an explanation. The manga is a slow story, here it's crammed into an hour forty. Doesn't work out...
And it was a huuuuuge mistake to erase the comedy and try to make it "creepy". The result becomes ridiculous instead :S The original work is nutty, insane and over-the-top, but it's self-aware and has a lot of humour.
Oh, about the romance/bromance? Almost gone. Mainstreamed.
Sure, it's vague in the manga, but it is there--mostly through innuendoes and slight stuff that gives a very slow development from "inexplicable attraction" into bromance into romance. (I'd be very surprised if Yamashita Tomoko doesn't make the outcome romantic.) -
99. Seguidores
Japanese Drama - 2020, 9 episodes
Not BL - but has gay characters.
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100. Sei no Gekiyaku
Japanese Movie - 2020
Adaptation of the manga by Mizuta Yuki.
WARNING: Not for the faint of heart... This is GRAPHIC. Basically--very forceful BDSM porn, but with a story. So this piece would be very uncomfortable for the sensitive.
Subber's insert in the beginning; "Watch with headphones"... Yes. I strongly suggest you do... (Unless you live in sound proof surroundings, your neighbours are deaf, or you don't have an issue with people who overhear, labelling you a porn fiend.)I expected to dislike this--maybe even hate it. I didn't. I really liked it.
It's so graphic that I literally choked on my juice. And I am definitely seasoned when it comes to X-rated BL... Visually very daring, but even more so, it's the content that'll make you go "oh-my-gawd".
Yes, it's gratuitous--it's a porn-party deluxe, but it does fill a purpose and it's the core of the story, really. Two lonely and broken perverts crossing paths.Normally, I condemn all the rape that sadly is a staple in BL, but here it's placed in a context, and depicting a story of sexual kinks. But it takes an open mind to understand and accept that there are people who don't fit the frame of what's considered normal.
It takes maturity, a willingness to figure out these two--and perhaps experience of being screwed up, as well as a bit of a perverted streak--in order to appreciate the portrayal of a far from "normal" relationship.The acting impresses the hell out of me. Perhaps not due to overwhelming talent--but anyone brave (and crazy) enough to take on these roles--and convincingly pull them off--deserves respect...
The direction, visuals and other tech stuff--is neatly and quite aesthetically done, and the result is an eye-poppingly outragerous, yet sensitive story--mesmerizing in its super strange appeal.